What is Love?

What is love, falling in love. What is a love triangle ribs changing over the years?

Types of love: parents and children, parents and children, friends, affection, love objects, car, dolls, myself, pet.

Premature sexual love: adult, young woman - a girl, commune, love - adoration (leader, idol, a wise man known) love the concept of love and rationale.

Erickson described the adult love of the individual ability to give of himself to others (partner, children, spouse) after he managed to balance the issue of identity and stopped looking for her. Adler described the ultimate love of man as a need to belong, intimacy - structured personality issues. Freud referred to the strong impulses of sex, death instincts and defined it with sexual attraction and separation anxiety between the two. Now define love as a process which start physical sexual attraction. First contact the male and female also ask themselves whether they are attracted to the spouse and whether they poverty to touch and connect with him physically. She went right to the body structure, buttocks, legs, chest, movement, eye gaze, facial structure ... It occurs within seconds, followed by the release of testosterone in female and male, at the same time the brain releases endorphins released last phase called neurotransmitter: dopamine takes his life in that a spouse is limited to a half year. (Sexual relations today are already at 14-15) that remained the same enthusiasm, disease, heartbeat, breathing rhythmically, feeling pleasure and pain in the chest down, happiness, euphoria, gift, star of Walt Disney is estimated, courageous friends, affection and - "Together forever". And if all that was between the spouses is the same physical attraction - chemical, then after this period, all that remains of that love is like a butterfly touching dust that leaves the fingers of love and nothing.

In other words: If there is no connection between the two values, no other cultural issues between the two, there is no communication, no respect, no understanding, not identical interests, - strong on "love" that she will become a burden quickly chewed gum with his mouth and tasted countless hours. Three sides of love: 1. Sexual attraction. 2. Mutual respect, friendship and affection people of Gaza. 3. Both of us together forever. Beginning of the first rib double bond is the longest of the two. (Together with the gap between male and female below is need more frequent sex from male to male gives a woman to get an emotion, warmth and contact, the male gives a feeling to get a chop over the years ... It's going to dramatically narrowed the remaining two sides are longer. If that formula does not work, love Ayn. Incidentally, the first meeting that gave birth to marriage and long-term memory will be preserved forever, will be a nostalgia, mythology, nostalgia about the wonderful past and one spouse will describe the details